{"id":17376,"date":"2021-05-24T14:06:58","date_gmt":"2021-05-24T14:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/?p=17376"},"modified":"2021-05-24T14:06:58","modified_gmt":"2021-05-24T14:06:58","slug":"daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/blog\/daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"Daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"

The day our doctor confirmed that I was expecting a girl, I ended up in Jo’s arms, in the middle of the hospital, crying!<\/h1>\n

I was convinced that I would be the mother of a boy, and in the first weeks Jo and I talked about boy names, because in reality I thought that if it were a boy, that he would like me a lot. And if she were a girl, she would have a greater connection with her father.<\/h2>\n

Hormones, fears and insecurities aside, it was with fat tears running down my face, and sobbing, that I verbalized the thoughts and beliefs that were going through my head, and there I managed to say something like, “if she is a girl she will like you more!!!”. And Jo, with Jo’s patience, hugged me and laughed. And my mother who was next to us, shrugged, and shook her head.<\/p>\n

Anyway, after almost 4 years, there is no doubt that she loves him, but we are super companions! And whether it is a boy or a girl, the important thing is to create a connection with our children, respect them as they are, teach them to nurture their talents and to overcome what they need. And they have a huge gift, of teaching how to nurture our abilities, and to overcome what we need!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The day our doctor confirmed that I was expecting a girl, I ended up in Jo’s arms, in the middle of the hospital, crying! I was convinced that I would be the mother of a boy, and in the first weeks Jo and I talked about boy names, because in reality I thought that if […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17372,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[169,142],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17376"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17376"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17376\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17377,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17376\/revisions\/17377"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17372"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17376"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17376"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ashtangacascais.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17376"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}